Monday, August 15, 2011

Summer Reading

I've spent my summer-reading-hours on the beach - figuratively, since we live over 1200 miles from the Atlantic coast where these three books take place.  I expected the congruity of location to make for three similar stories, and in a way they were.  They each centered around the characters' relationships rather than a complicated plot.  But that's where the similarities end.

Summer Rental by Mary Kay Andrews: Book CoverFolly Beach by Dorothea Benton Frank: Book CoverMaine by J. Courtney Sullivan: Book Cover
Summer Rental by Mary Kay Andrews  

Ellis, Julia, and Dorie - Best friends since grade school, they now find themselves, in their mid-thirties, at the crossroads of life and love. A month in North Carolina's outer banks is just what each of them needs. Maryn Shackleford is a stranger, and a woman on the run. Four people questioning everything they ever thought they knew about life. (from book jacket)
 Summer Rental was the lightest of the three books.  I enjoyed the interaction between the three friends.  They knew each other so well that they could speak bluntly and even argue, but they always came back together.  Each of them faced a life-choice, which made for three separate interesting stories, but the main focus was their bond and how they joined together to help an outsider.  Romance, mystery, and chick lit - great reading choice if you happen to be on a beach or just wish you were.  I give it 4 stars out of 5.

Maine by J. Courtney Sullivan

This was the most complex of my beach reads.


In her highly anticipated second novel, Sullivan introduces four unforgettable women who have nothing in common but the fact that, like it or not, they’re family. Their beachfront property sits on three acres of sand and pine nestled between stretches of rocky coast.  At the cottage, cocktail hour follows morning mass, nosy grandchildren snoop in drawers, and decades-old grudges simmer beneath the surface.  As three generations of Kelleher women descend on the property one summer, each brings her own hopes and fears. By turns wickedly funny and achingly sad, Maine unveils the sibling rivalry, social climbing, and Catholic guilt at the center of one family, along with the abiding, often irrational love that keeps them coming back, every summer, to Maine and to each other. (from book jacket)
I have a long-time fascination with the state of Maine.  To vacation in a beachfront house there is near the top of my "bucket list", so this book had a head-start on being my favorite of the beach books.  At first I thought the large family was going to be too much to keep track of - to the point that I drew a sticky-note family tree to keep inside the front cover for easy reference.  But as the story progressed, the focus narrowed to four women:  Alice, the matriarch; her daughter, Kathleen, and daughter-in-law, Ann Marie; and Kathleen's daughter Maggie.  Like the first book, each of them had their own crises or ghosts to face, but the story was really about the family connections and stereotypes.  Alice's commitment to her faith and the Church, mixed with the more intricate look at relationships, made this a deeper read - save it for a rainy, indoor day.

I'm giving this book 4.5 out of 5 stars.  The missing half-star is due, partially, to points where I thought the story drug and, partially, to improper use of "bring" and "take" (you know that's one of my pet-peeves) and this sentence:  "Once in a blue moon, one of them made it to the mayor's office or city hall.  Those ones were remembered the longest, them and the criminals."  Those ones?  Did one of the Sopranos edit this book?

On the plus side, it added a few entries to my "fav quotes" book:

"...Daniel's belief in the importance of generations, of one person understanding life through the experiences of all the people who came before."

"He had been smart enough not to have children, so he could never know the peculiar sensation of caring terribly, insanely for a person over whom you had no control; a person who was your responsibility, yet no longer had to answer to you."

"The Church was the only constant companion of Alice's life, the only thing that made sense, always."

"Arlo held Kathleen's hand and she squeezed hard, imaging all the ways that motherhood could change a person, ways that you could simply never imagine for yourself until you were stuck right there in the middle of it."

"Until recently she thought she had done well.  But, the uncertainty of raising three children could wear on her, even now - especially now.  When she thought about that unpleasant business with Little Daniel and his last job, when she thought about Fiona, she wondered if she was somehow to blame for all of it.  Where were her children at this moment?  Were they wearing seat belts?  Did they still believe in God?  Did they understand not only how to keep house but why?  Had she done enough?  Could a mother ever do enough?"

Folly Beach
by Dorothea Benton Frank

With its glistening beaches, laid back Southern charm, and enticing Gullah tradition, Folly Beach has long been one of South Carolina’s most historic and romantic spots. It is the land of Cate Cooper’s childhood, the place where all the ghosts of her past roam freely. Cate never thought she’d return to the beach house named for this lovely strip of coast. But circumstances have changed, thanks to her newly dead husband, whose financial—and emotional—perfidy has left Cate homeless and broke.  And for Cate, Folly holds the promise of unexpected fulfillment . . . of the woman she’s always wanted—and is finally ready—to become. (from book jacket)
 The third of my beach reads was a disappointment.  The story of Cate - left homeless and "broke" (well, not totally broke by my standards, but destitute compared to what she had before) after her husband's suicide - starts with a bang, followed by 250 pages of fizzle.  In the first few chapters the problems stack like cord-wood , but they are all solved easily and without much effort.  It gave me visions of the birds and mice helping Cinderella make her ball-gown while they all whistle a cheerful tune. 

Warning - Spoilers:  Homeless? -  find an aunt with multiple rental homes.  Jobless? - take a week or two to write a play (your first attempt at writing) that is immediately put into production.  Widow? - meet tall, dark and handsome man on your first day in town.    New man is inconveniently married to woman in mental hospital? - wife has sudden onset of stage-4 cancer.  Facing a lawsuit from husband's mistress? - one letter will make her re-think her ways!  Daughter a struggling actress? - give her the lead in your new play and she immediately gets an offer to co-star in a movie with Julia Roberts.

Mixed within this fairy tale is a history lesson on DuBose Hayward, author of the novel Porgy; his wife, Dorothy; George Gershwin, and the summer they spent on Folly Island writing the music for Porgy and Bess, the musical adaptation of the novel.  Unfortunately, the history lesson turns into a feminist, man-bashing lecture on Dorothy's role as the true genius behind the scenes.

I finished the book because it was the third of my summer reads and I wanted to be able to compare all three, and because of the popularity of the author - I was sure there would be a twist at the end to redeem the plodding middle section.  But all I found was a story with no tension, random plot points (what was the whole criminally insane wife thing about?) and dialogue that was, at times, indecipherable.  I'm giving this book 3 stars, only because I figure there must be redeeming qualities to Ms. Frank's other works and even New York Times bestselling authors can have an "off" book.  And because the premise is good - even if it's poorly delivered.

Sunday, August 14, 2011

The Best Things In Life . . .

"Nearly all the best things that came to me in life have been unexpected, unplanned by me." - Carl Sandburg


pic from my-wedding-cake-ideas.com
We have returned from our brief trip to attend my nephew's wedding reception.  Said nephew now resides near the southern tip of Texas and hasn't been back to Kansas for nearly two years.  During this time, he spent a few days in Vegas and went home married to a lovely woman.  (The lovely woman went to Vegas with him.  I mean, it's not like he just found some chicky to marry while he was on a bender.)  It was actually planned in advance, but the arrangements didn't include his mama, who felt somewhat - and justifiably - left out.  Not to be denied the opportunity to celebrate her son's nuptials, she planned a  small reception for about forty family members and friends.  The decorations were gorgeous, the catered meal was delicious, and the wedding cake was elegant. (The pic is not the actual cake - do you really think it occurred to me to snap some pictures? - but this one is similar.)  

The best part was the impromptu gathering at my sister's house afterwards.  Keep in mind that she already had both of her children, their spouses, one granddaughter and two dogs in her house, then Dave, my Mom and I piled in.  We gathered around the dining room to watch the happy couple open their gifts.  Then the bride requested to see some of her new husband's baby pictures and learn more about his family.  Hilarity ensued!  Sis hauled out a huge bag of random pictures - covering more than thirty years - which were waiting to be put into albums, and we all dug in.  We shared memories and embarrassing stories, passing pictures back and forth while we laughed and all talked at once.  I think the most common phrase heard was "Look how thin I was!"  Around 1:00 a.m. the left-overs were pulled back out of the fridge for a little snack, and then it was time to head back to Mom's and hit the sack.  

I have tried to create this kind of moment in the past, but it's been my experience that when you plan them, they never work out.  The best things happen when you just relax and go-with-the-flow.  In spite of my grumbling about loading back into the car for another weekend trip, this turned out to be a special time with family.  There's a lesson in there somewhere, but I refuse to examine it too deeply for fear I'll have to admit to being wrong.

Saturday, August 13, 2011

Six Word Saturday

We pack, we drive, we unpack.

Our summer has seemed like one long trip, interrupted by occasional days at home to wash our traveling clothes and hit the road again.  We are off again today to attend my nephew's wedding reception (He was smart and got married in Vegas.)  I'm tired of looking at the dash of the car, I'm tired of living out of a suitcase, I'm just tired.  I keep telling myself that things will slow down after Labor Day, but K-State football starts that weekend, so probably not.  Go State!

Six Word Saturday is sponsored by Cate at ShowMyFace.  Want to play along?  All that's necessary to participate is to describe your life (or something in it) in a phrase using exactly six words.  For more information, click here.  You can add an explanation, a video, a song, or nothing at all.   Visit Cate's blog to link your entry or to read all entries.

Friday, August 12, 2011

Are you there, Red Cross? It's me, Tami.

Dear Red Cross:

First off, God bless you for the lives you save!  I am glad to have the opportunity to support the incredible work you do by giving blood, but here's the thing . . .   Although you can't tell it by looking, I do have better things to do with my time than sit on a cold, lop-sided folding chair, answering repetitive questions.  Let me sum up.   Since I was here six weeks ago I have not injected any drugs - illegal or otherwise - with a new, used, rusty, or darning needle.  I have not paid for, nor accepted payment for, sex, unless you count the pecan pie I made Dave.  I have not traveled to Africa, and the only blood I've been in contact with was from swatting mosquitoes - and I think most of that was my own.  So here's my idea:  The Blood Donation 1040EZ!  Question 1:  Has anything at all changed since you were here last?    If not, please skip questions 2 through 1357.

I appreciate your attempt to procure clean, healthy blood, but let me point out some flaws in your plan.  Number one, I am not being paid to give blood.  I am here by my own choice so there is no incentive for me to intentionally donate tainted blood.  Number two - if there WERE such an incentive and I was so desperate for cash that I would sell my blood, would it be a stretch to think I might lie?

Also, although I understand the reasoning behind it, I still  resent being asked to verify my name, social security number and birth date repeatedly.  This is a small town.  Even if I could imagine why I would want to have someone impersonate me at a blood drive (or vice-versa), the lady at the sign-in table greeted me by name and we sat next to the cookie lady at church last Sunday.  The fake identity thing probably isn't going to fly.

The good far outweighs the annoyance, and the inconvenience won't stop me from donating.  But it sure would be nice if the process could be streamlined.  After all, there should be some benefit to living such an uneventful life.

The Blood Donor 1040EZ - You'll thank me later.

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Sur-prise, Sur-prise, Sur-prise!

It worked!  The Christmas quizzes cooled things down - high temps in the 80's yesterday and today - so I could return to the great outdoors.  And - surprise! - I found Surprise Lilies.   In May and June there were four beds of greenery like those shown at the right.  (Sorry, it didn't occur to me at the time that the leaves were photo worthy, so I found this image on the internet.)  But they died off in July and we assumed that, whatever they were, they hadn't survived the heat.  Now, without a leaf in sight, stalks are shooting up all over (actual pictures from Green Acres):



Each single bud opened to reveal four or more buds 
on each stalk:





And in less than a week from first sprout, each bud opened into a beautiful lavender lily:


Turns out that's how Surprise Lilies work - hence the name.  These beauties are also called Resurrection Lilies, Magic Lilies or Naked Ladies.

Then my second surprise.  I can't believe it's taken me this long to realize, but we have butterflies.  That may not seem like a shocker to you, but it was to me.  Our previous home in southwest Kansas was very dry.  Not much grew that wasn't purposely planted and watered.  When we moved here this Spring, one of the first things we noticed were wildflowers . . . everywhere.  Miles of ditches full of gorgeous blooms.  And with flowers come butterflies.  I hadn't missed them until they were back.  So I spent two days running around the yard with my cellphone, trying to snap some pictures. Aren't I glad we live in the country so the neighbors weren't snapping pictures of the crazy woman next door?!  Those little buggers are quick, but I did manage to click on four different varieties.  The photography's not very good, but you try to get clear pictures while crawling under a lilac bush, trying not to spook the butterfly, with your phone in one hand and a snake-killing pitchfork in the other.  (Ha, snakes!  You thought I'd forgotten you and that one of your ilk tried to hide in my lilac bush.  But no!  I will never forget!  You and I will be enemies. . . Sorry.  We don't need to go down that road again.)  
Red-Spotted Purple
Eastern Tiger Swallowtail 





Viceroy Butterfly
The I-Don't-Have-A-Clue Butterfly
Identification courtesy of www.gardenswithwings.com

Sunday, August 7, 2011

Christmas Book Quiz Answers

  1. Who wrote the Christmas murder-mystery Silent Night?   (Mary Higgins Clark)
  2. Who wrote the Christmas murder-mystery Jerusalem Inn?  (Martha Grimes)
  3. What is Scrooge’s favorite two-word expletive?  (Bah! Humbug!)
  4. Who wrote the Christmas murder-mystery Downtown in 1991? (Ed McBain)
  5. In the traditional children’s rhyme Christmas is Coming, where are we asked to put a penny? (in the old man's hat)
  6. What famous author wrote One Christmas that became a 1994 made-for-TV movie?  (Truman Capote)
  7. Who wrote The Christmas Box ?  (Richard Paul Evans)
  8. Who wrote the Christmas book The Homecoming:  A Novel about Spencer’s Mountain?  (Earl Hamner)
  9. Who wrote the line:  “I will honor Christmas in my heart and try to keep it all the year”?  (Charles Dickins in A Christmas Carol)
  10. Who wrote the book Miracle on 34th Street in 1947?  (Valentine Davies)
  11. Who wrote Spirit of the Season in 1993?  (Heather Graham)
  12. Who wrote Cosmic Christmas in 1997?  (Max Lucado)
  13. Who wrote the Christmas novella Miracle in the Wilderness?  (Paul Gallico)
  14. In A Visit From St. Nicholas, what headgear does Mamma wear?  (a kerchief)
  15. Who wrote the Christmas murder-mystery Tied Up in Tinsel?  (Ngaio Marsh)
  16. Who wrote the mystery The Christmas Crimes at Puzzle Manor?  (Simon Brett)
  17. How many spirits visit Scrooge in A Christmas Carol?  (Four – the ghosts of Jacob Marley and Christmases Past, Present and Yet to Come)
  18. Who wrote the Christmas story The Cricket in the Hearth?  (Charles Dickens)
  19. What did Santa say as he drove out of sight in A Visit from St. Nicholas? (Happy Christmas to all, and to all a good night!)
  20. Who wrote the Christmas murder-mystery Nutty As a Fruitcake? (Mary Daheim)
  21. Who wrote Shakespeare's Christmas in 1994?  (Charlaine Harris)
  22. Which of Sue Grafton's letter novels is a Christmas mystery?  (E is for Evidence)



Saturday, August 6, 2011

Christmas Book Quiz

Are you warmed up now?  Wait . . . the purpose of these quzzes was to cool down.  Whatever - I hope you are up on your holiday reading, because this quiz contains a few familiar titles and a few tougher [roasted chest]nuts to crack.

  1. Who wrote the Christmas murder-mystery Silent Night?   
  2. Who wrote the Christmas murder-mystery Jerusalem Inn?  
  3. What is Scrooge’s favorite two-word expletive?  
  4. Who wrote the Christmas murder-mystery Downtown in 1991? 
  5. In the traditional children’s rhyme Christmas is Coming, where are we asked to put a penny?
  6. What famous author wrote One Christmas that became a 1994 made-for-TV movie?  
  7. Who wrote The Christmas Box ?  
  8. Who wrote the Christmas book The Homecoming:  A Novel about Spencer’s Mountain?  
  9. Who wrote the line:  “I will honor Christmas in my heart and try to keep it all the year”?
  10. Who wrote the book Miracle on 34th Street in 1947?  
  11. Who wrote Spirit of the Season in 1993?  
  12. Who wrote Cosmic Christmas in 1997?  
  13. Who wrote the Christmas novella Miracle in the Wilderness?  
  14. In A Visit From St. Nicholas, what headgear does Mamma wear?  
  15. Who wrote the Christmas murder-mystery Tied Up in Tinsel?  
  16. Who wrote the mystery The Christmas Crimes at Puzzle Manor?  
  17. How many spirits visit Scrooge in A Christmas Carol?  
  18. Who wrote the Christmas story The Cricket in the Hearth?  
  19. What did Santa say as he drove out of sight in A Visit from St. Nicholas
  20. Who wrote the Christmas murder-mystery Nutty As a Fruitcake
  21. Who wrote Shakespeare's Christmas in 1994?
  22. Which of Sue Grafton's letter novels is a Christmas mystery? 
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Music Quiz Answers
  1. In the song Jingle Bells, who was seated next to me a day or two ago?  (Miss Fanny Bright)
  2. I’m dreaming of a White Christmas with what?  (Every Christmas card I write)
  3. What Christmas carol includes the following line: “When the snow lay round about, deep and crisp and even.”   (Good King Wenceslas)
  4. What country musical group sang the song Christmas in Dixie?  (Alabama)
  5. What event prompted Santa to ask Rudolph to guide his sleigh?  (foggy weather)
  6. In the Christmas song It’s Beginning to Look a Lot like Christmas, what do Janice and Jen want?  (Dolls that will talk and will go for a walk)
  7. Who do we pretend the snowman is in Winter Wonderland?  (Parson Brown)
  8. Who sang the original 1946 version of The Christmas Song?  (Mel Torme – who also co-wrote the song)
  9. What do we see before us in the Christmas carol Deck the Halls?  (The blazing yule)
  10. What are the first two lines of the Christmas song Let it Snow?  (Oh, the weather outside is frightful, but the fire is so delightful)
  11. Bing Crosby had two gold records in 1942.  What were they?  (White Christmas and Silent Night)  
  12. What song contains the line “Somebody waits for you, kiss her once for me”?  (A Holly Jolly Christmas)
  13. What do the “angels we have heard on high” do through the night?  (sing sweetly)
  14. Complete the line from the song White Christmas:  “May your days be merry and ________.”  (bright)
  15. What does the child bring us in Bing Crosby’s Do You Hear What I Hear?  (Goodness and light)
  16. Who wrote the song White Christmas?  (Irving Berlin)
  17. What is the third line of the first verse to Up on the Housetop?  (Down through the chimney with lots of toys)
  18. What repeats the sounding joy in the Christmas carol Joy to the World?  (field and floods, rocks, hills and plains)
  19. What did Frosty do when they placed the magic hat on his head?  (He began to dance around)
  20. The lyrics "On every street corner you hear" appear in what song?  (Silver Bells)
  21. According to Perry Como, what can’t you beat for the holidays?  (Home Sweet Home)