Friday, December 14, 2012

The Big XII: Books in a League of Their Own

It's traditional this time of year for bloggers to compile lists of their top book picks for the  past twelve months.  And usually there's a core group of books that show up in varying combinations on nearly every list.  But 2012 was an unusual literary year for me.  Few of the big-name bestsellers really struck a chord with me.  So my list includes only a couple of the "usual suspects" and more of the lesser-known and unusual, but all are books with something special to offer.  Here are my Top 12 for '12 - in no particular order (other than #1) - with snippets from my reviews:

The Snow Child by Eowyn Ivey  - Easily my favorite book of the year.

 I want so badly to tell every one of you why this book is one of "those" - the books that you don't want to end; the books that change how you think; the books that ring a bell somewhere in your memory; the books that are now part of those memories.  I want to shout, "I love this book and you should, too."  First and foremost, it's about a woman who couldn't have a child.  (If you aren't aware of our battle with infertility, you can read about it here.)  Of course Mabel touches my heart, I know her pain.  Secondly, it has a magical element to it, without going over the top.  And third, it's set in Alaska (it's on my bucket list). 

The Black Box by Michael Connelly - This entry is a bit deceiving because I haven't actually read it.  However, I did read seven other Michael Connelly books during the year.  I started with The Reversal from the Micky Haller series and moved on to the Harry Bosch series, a couple where they overlap and even a stand-alone.  Every one of them was wonderful - good plot, good characters, good reading! 

I do have a copy of Mr. Connelly's newest, thanks to a Twitter giveaway on Thanksgiving day, so it may yet get read this year.  Thank you, Little Brown.

The Racketeer by John Grisham 
A Grisham legal thriller is never a bad thing - but this one rates with Mr. Grisham's early works.  The plot twists and turns till the end.  Even though we could see parts of the solution coming, there were still surprises that made us slap palm to forehead.



Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn  - If you haven't at least heard of this book, you've been under a rock for the past six months.  It's the thriller that has everyone talking and saying "Huh?"
Another reviewer commented on how hard it is to review this book without including spoilers, and I agree.  It's a complicated, twisting plot - even after you've finished reading.  I recommend it for all fans of psychological thrillers - especially those, like myself, with no stomach for blood and guts. 

Stardust by Carla Stewart 
 I was fascinated with the setting and the era.  My family took a vacation each summer, usually to the mountains, and sometimes stayed in small, cabin-style motels similar to the Stardust.  Though that would have been a decade later than the 1950's setting of the book, the giant chain hotels were yet to take over.  Reading Stardust brought back some fond memories.  It also introduced me to the polio epidemic.
The Birdhouse by Kelly Simmons  
There are actually two stories within this book - the present, when Ann is trying to connect with her granddaughter and battling signs of dementia; and the past, with it's secrets.  As the reader is enjoying the present story, bits of the past surface. Through the two stories and time frames, we see Ann - and she sees herself - as almost two separate people.  That sense of disconnection, combined with the memory questions, makes an absorbing story.  
Made to Crave by Lysa TerKeurst  
This book gave me some much-needed insight into why I eat what I eat, and the reality of "will-power".  A person who views food in a healthy manner can not understand the cravings and irrational behavior of an emotional eater, just as I can not understand a smoker's need for a cigarette.  But Lysa gets it.  And she backs up her insights with scripture.  This is not a book for the casual dieter or the latest fad to take off pounds for swim-suit season, but I recommend it to every woman who struggles with her weight, her attitude toward food and her self-esteem. 
Let's Pretend This Never Happened by Jenny Lawson
Jenny suffers from an anxiety disorder which alternately (a.) forces her to hide in the bathroom or (b.) shuts off her self-filter and leaves her spewing a non-stop stream of consciousness (usually about inappropriate subjects) to total strangers.  She also has a bizarre fixation on taxidermied animals and the ability to spin every situation as her husband, Victor's, fault.  All of which she retells with a caustic sense of humor. But underneath all that is a vulernable woman with a heart as big and open as West Texas.  I feel obliged to mention that Jenny is well-versed in profanity and uses it frequently - but if you can look past it, then her "mostly true memoir" is touching, encouraging and just freakin' funny!
Trail of the Spellmans by Lisa Lutz
Izzy Spellman is a mix of the best parts of Stephanie Plum and Harriet the Spy.  Her entire life is mysteries and cover-ups - at least from her point of view.  What most families would solve with a few direct questions, the Spellmans solve with stake-outs, bribery and recording devices. The entire series is tangled, clever and a hoot!  



Hens and Chickens by Jennifer Wixson - 
A lovely story of two women who leave the city and their corporate jobs to start a business together in rural Maine. There's both romance and mystery, but it's really all about the people.  I'm in love with the charming village of Sovereign, Maine, and it's inhabitants and can't wait to go back.
This is a unique pick because it's not a big-name author, or even a big-name publisher.  Jennifer is a "cyber-friend" whom I met on Twitter - she's not only the author, she's the publicist, the marketing department . . . and an all-around fun lady to get to know.  With apologies to Jennifer, I must admit I usually avoid this type of book because I have seen too many that are published through small publishers or self-published because, frankly, they're not publish-quality.  But knowing a little about Jennifer in advance, I knew this would be different.  And it is.  There are plans for a least two more books in the series, plus a cookbook.  Look for them on future "best of" lists.

One re-read and one "oldie but goodie" made my list this year . . . 'cause it's my list and I can do that if I want.


Where Are The Children by Mary Higgins Clark (1975)
This is old-school thriller writing.  Mary Higgins Clark set the bar for page-turners.  The story is fast-paced, with enough hints to keep you guessing without revealing too much and ruining the twisting ending.





A Miracle on 34th Street by Valentine Davies (1947)

The basis of the beloved Christmas movie - and just as good.


Thursday, December 6, 2012

Giving Thanks: In Which I Lament the Scarcity of Gratitude and the State of the Union

In 1789, President George Washington declared "a day of public thanksgiving and prayer to be observed by acknowledging with grateful hearts the many signal favors of Almighty God."    Two hundred, twenty-three years later, President Obama again proclaimed a day to be "grateful for the God-given bounty that enriches our lives."  But somewhere through the years, the focus shifted from gratitude FOR the bounty, to acquiring MORE bounty.

The term "Black Friday" has been around since the 1960's (at least, according to the sites I could find in my 3 minutes of internet research), but it's only in the last 10-15 years that it has become a holiday on it's own.  Families plan their Thanksgiving outings to be near the largest shopping meccas.  Shoppers are actually injuring each other to get new stuff to replace the stuff they were being thankful for just hours earlier.  Then Friday expanded to Small Business Saturday and Cyber Monday.  What's next? - the "Skip Church to Shop Super Sale - Goliath Savings for the Non-Believer and the Backslider!"

The "gimme" frenzy has now invaded Thanksgiving itself.  Many stores run specials on Thursday evening to lure shoppers out even earlier.  "Put down that drumstick, Pa. We gotta get to the Wal-Mart!"

Before you get irate at my attitude, let me assure you that I'm not averse to bargain shopping.  And I even joined in the Black Friday shop-a-thon for the first time this year - sort of.  We were at Mitch's because he was on call - Mitch's girlfriend went home for the weekend and Amanda was in KC with her boyfriend's family - so it was just the three of us.  We got curious about how many people would actually line up for the early sales in Hays, KS - so we ventured out to people-watch.  Honestly, we were probably all secretly hoping for schadenfreude.  We went to Wal-Mart and Home Depot.  By the time we drove by the mall, we were tired and the crowd - if there had been one - had thinned, so we didn't stop.  We didn't witness any long lines or appalling behavior.  We did see Wal-Mart employees scurrying like underpaid Christmas elves to get multi-plex size TV's stocked for the 5:00 a.m. crowd.  We bought a few things, but nothing that wouldn't have been the same price the next Tuesday.  

It's just sad.  Sad that we have become so possession obsessed that we can't devote an entire day to being grateful for what we have.  Sad that merchants feed on that obsession to entice us to behave this way.  Why can't the specials be offered throughout December?  And why have we become so greedy that we will have fist-fights to get a $12 hand mixer for $7.95?


If you've read many of my ramblings, you may know my mantra:  Live Simply, Live Graciously, Finish Well.  My desire for "stuff" has diminished the past few years.  Oh yes, it still rears it's head on occasion - especially near a fabric store or Hobby Lobby - but my idea of living simply is to, as much as possible, cut out those things - possessions, commitments, relationships - that cause unnecessary work or stress with no return.  Fabric and craft supplies pay many returns in relaxation, creativity and beauty. But I'm adding a new goal for the new year - and the years beyond . . . to live gratefully.  Not just on Thanksgiving, but daily.  I will be keeping a gratitude journal to remind me of how blessed I am and The One who has blessed me - and to say "Thank you".


Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace, and gratitude.
                                                                  - Denis Waitley (author and motivational speaker)
 


Christmas quote quiz - The Answers.

1.  Faith is believing when common sense tells you not to. - Miracle on 34th Street

2.  Isn't there anyone who knows what Christmas is all about? - A Charlie Brown Christmas

3.  In putting on the suit and entering the sleigh, the wearer waives any and all right to any previous identity, real or implied, and fully accepts the duties and responsibilities of Santa Claus, in perpetuity, to which time the wearer becomes unable to do so, by either accident or design.  - The Santa Clause

4.  Maybe Christmas, perhaps, means a little bit more.  - How the Grinch Stole Christmas

5.  This is Christmas. The season of perpetual hope. And I don't care if I have to get out on your runway and hitchhike. If it costs me everything I own, if I have to sell my soul to the devil himself, I am going to get home to my son. - Home Alone

6.  What's Christmas to you but a time for paying bills without money; a time for finding yourself a year older, but not an hour richer; a time for balancing your books and having every item in them through a round dozen of months presented dead against you? - A Christmas Carol

7.  Only one thing in the world could've dragged me away from the soft glow of electric sex gleaming in the window.  - A Christmas Story

8.  Seeing is believing, but sometimes the most real things in the world are the things we can't see. - The Polar Express

9.  But I think what I've got is something slightly resembling - gumption.  - The Holiday

10.  You're skipping Christmas?  Isn't that illegal? - Christmas With the Kranks

11.  My father didn't think so. People were human beings to him. But to you, a warped, frustrated old man, they're cattle. Well in my book, my father died a much richer man than you'll ever be!  - It's A Wonderful Life

12.  You're a disgrace to the outfit. You're soft! You're sloppy! You're unruly! You're undisciplined!  And I never saw anything look so wonderful in my whole life! - White Christmas

13. We get one day a year to prove we're not screw-ups and what do we do? We screw it up. - Jingle All the Way

14.This is a full-blown, four-alarm holiday emergency here. We're gonna press on, and we're gonna have the hap, hap, happiest Christmas since Bing Crosby tap-danced with Danny f***ing Kaye. And when Santa squeezes his fat, white ass down that chimney tonight, he's gonna find the jolliest bunch of assholes this side of the nuthouse. - National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation

Bonus - 
   All the stockings are filled... all that is, except one. And we have even forgotten to hang it up. The stocking for the child born in a manger. It's his birthday we are celebrating. Don't ever let us forget that. - The Bishop's Wife

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Christmas Quote Quiz

Congratulations to Sprite from Sprite Writes -
who successfully named 23 of the 24 Christmas movies/shows in the Dec. 1 puzzle. (She overlooked that little shot of White Christmas at the bottom).  Sprite wins her choice of the Christmas ornaments I've been making.  


And to continue the Christmas Puzzling - below are lines from 14 of the 24 shows represented in the original puzzle.  Can you match the quote with the movie?  Here's a little help - none of the lines are from regular television shows (that knocks out Brady Bunch, West Wing, etc.)  They are all from feature-length films or TV specials. There's no prize this time except the personal satisfaction of a job well done - so shout 'em out, even if you only know one or two.  

Answers will be posted on Thursday.

1.  Faith is believing when common sense tells you not to.

2.  Isn't there anyone who knows what Christmas is all about?

3.  In putting on the suit and entering the sleigh, the wearer waives any and all right to any previous identity, real or implied, and fully accepts the duties and responsibilities of Santa Claus, in perpetuity, to which time the wearer becomes unable to do so, by either accident or design. 

4.  Maybe Christmas, perhaps, means a little bit more. 

5.  This is Christmas. The season of perpetual hope. And I don't care if I have to get out on your runway and hitchhike. If it costs me everything I own, if I have to sell my soul to the devil himself, I am going to get home to my son. 

6.  What's Christmas to you but a time for paying bills without money; a time for finding yourself a year older, but not an hour richer; a time for balancing your books and having every item in them through a round dozen of months presented dead against you? 

7.  Only one thing in the world could've dragged me away from the soft glow of electric sex gleaming in the window. 

8.  Seeing is believing, but sometimes the most real things in the world are the things we can't see.

9.  But I think what I've got is something slightly resembling - gumption. 

10.  You're skipping Christmas?  Isn't that illegal?

11.  My father didn't think so. People were human beings to him. But to you, a warped, frustrated old man, they're cattle. Well in my book, my father died a much richer man than you'll ever be! 

12.  You're a disgrace to the outfit. You're soft! You're sloppy! You're unruly! You're undisciplined!  And I never saw anything look so wonderful in my whole life! 

13. We get one day a year to prove we're not screw-ups and what do we do? We screw it up.

14.This is a full-blown, four-alarm holiday emergency here. We're gonna press on, and we're gonna have the hap, hap, happiest Christmas since Bing Crosby tap-danced with Danny f***ing Kaye. And when Santa squeezes his fat, white ass down that chimney tonight, he's gonna find the jolliest bunch of assholes this side of the nuthouse.

Bonus - This line (and this movie) aren't as well known as many of the others, but I loved this quote too much to not include it.  So give yourself a bonus point if you can identify this one:
   All the stockings are filled... all that is, except one. And we have even forgotten to hang it up. The stocking for the child born in a manger. It's his birthday we are celebrating. Don't ever let us forget that. 

Monday, December 3, 2012

Christmas Movie Puzzle: The Answers

Answers to puzzle posted Dec. 1 as part of the Virtual Advent Tour:

Top row
Miracle on 34th Street
The Santa Clause
How the Grinch Stole Christmas
Home Alone
Green Acres
Oprah's Favorite Things 

2nd row:
A Charlie Brown Christmas
The Andy Griffith Show
A Christmas Story
The Brady Bunch
The Bishop's Wife
Mrs. Miracle 

3rd row: 
A Christmas Carol
The Polar Express
The Holiday
Christmas with the Kranks
Santa Claus Is Coming to Town

4th row: 
The Dick Van Dyke Show
It's a Wonderful Life
White Christmas
West Wing
Rudolf the Red-Nosed Reindeer
Jingle All the Way
National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation

Holiday Pin It/Do It: Pins 6-8

Three more easy pins bring my total to eight for this challenge.  Pin #6 was a memory from childhood, reignited by this pin:  
 Pinned from Cocoa Daisy


My sisters and I used to make these from Reader's' Digest magazines and then spray paint them green or gold.  I hadn't thought about them for years, until I saw this version.  I couldn't find a Reader's Digest on the magazine stand at the grocery store, so I dove into the box of books I bought at an estate sale.  Step one was to remove the cover and spine without breaking the glue or stitching holding the pages together.  The first book turned out to have HUGE staples reinforcing the glue and keeping it from forming the necessary circle - so try, try again.  
My version
You can find the folding instructions at the link under the original pin. Since the tree was made from a book, rather than a magazine, I didn't want to cover the pages, so I sprayed it with Krylon Glitter Blast to give it a bit of sparkle and some stiffness.  I chose to limit the embellishments to just the star on top to match the larger ornaments I've been making.  Never again!  Made from 1/8" x 2" strips of paper, it was a nightmare of sticky fingers and crossed eyes.  Although it's not perfect, a little more glitter paint covered the flaws.  It's attached to the tree with a toothpick and craft glue.



Number 7 was more an inspiration than an exact copy of a Christmas decoration for the front porch.  Last summer I found an old crate in the shed and painted it up to match the patriotic theme on my front porch.  It held pots of geraniums during warm weather, but was just sitting empty, so I adapted this idea, using the crate in place of the wagon.
My version
Dave cut the branches from trees near the house.  The sled belonged to his mom. The star and greenery on the sled came preassembled ($12) so I can't take credit for that - Dave just wired it to the sled.  Throw in a few empty boxes wrapped in coordinating paper and some artificial apples and berries I found at a second-hand store ($2), and you have an inexpensive Red, White and Blue Christmas.

Pin #8 is embarrassingly simple.  Scraps of felt, a few dabs of glue, four snips of the scissors . . . add a candy cane and you have . . . a Christmas mouse????  I have no clue what mice have to do with Christmas or what to do with the finished canes - but they're a Martha Stewart project - so they're adorable!
Martha's mice                       My version
When I signed up for Trish's Holiday Pin It/Do It Challenge, I chose the "pin obsessed" level, which was to complete 8 or more pins before December 31.  I've made it by Dec. 3rd!  But that won't stop me.  I have five recipes to try while the kids are home, a Christmas quilt that is cut out but probably won't be complete by the end of the year, and my most anticipated pin - RACK (Random Acts of Christmas Kindness).  Pin on, elves!

Saturday, December 1, 2012

Virtual Advent Tour

Welcome to Day 1 of the Virtual Advent Tour, sponsored by Kailana @ The Reading World and Marg @ Adventures of an Intrepid Reader.  I've planned a few minutes of fun to kick things off. 

Two of my favorite things are Christmas and puzzles - so I've combined the two and created a collage of scenes from twenty-four of my favorite Christmas movies, TV specials and Christmas TV episodes.  How many can you identify?

Just leave a comment listing the names of the movies and TV shows (no need to identify the specific episode name.)  Comment moderation will be turned on temporarily so you can't peek at anyone's answers.  The winner will be selected by random drawing of all entries that get all twenty-four correct - or come the closest.  The winner will receive a hand-made Christmas ornament.

Entries will remain open till midnight, Monday, December 3rd.  Come back on Tuesday, December 4th to find out who won - and to play along on a second puzzle matching quotes from the Christmas movies with the proper title.


Have fun - and have a Merry Christmas!
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