Thursday, September 15, 2011

Mini Reviews

I've gotten a little behind on writing book reviews, so here's the nutshell version of what I've been reading lately:
Christmas at Harrington's by Melody Carlson - Christmas is approaching, and Lena Markham finds herself penniless, friendless, and nearly hopeless. She is trying to restart her life after false accusations landed her in prison, but job opportunities are practically nonexistent. When a secondhand red coat unexpectedly lands her a job as Mrs. Santa at a department store, Lena finally thinks her luck is changing. But can she keep her past a secret? (publisher synopsis)

Good lesson on not being judgemental and giving second chances.  Cute, slightly predictable, but fun Christmas story.  And Humbug to all you Scrooges who don't like Christmas books before December.  This was a bargain from Doubleday Book Club and when it arrived, I just couldn't wait.

Two Tickets to the Christmas Ball by Donita K. Paul - Every year, the matchmaking booksellers at Warner, Werner and Wizbotterdad's host an enchanting, old-fashioned Christmas Ball for the romantic matches they’ve decided to bring together.  This year, will Simon and Cora discover a perfect chemistry in their opposite personalities and shared faith? Or will the matchmakers’ best laid plans end up ruining everything this holiday? (publisher's synopsis)

Another bargain buy, this time from the Waldenbook's closeout sale - which, by the way, I found very sad, even while piling up stacks of good finds.  Again, a predictable but enjoyable Christmas romance.  Ms. Paul's characters have strong Christian faith and morals, which are often downplayed even in Christian fiction.  I appreciated her unapologetic commitment to her beliefs and her ability to mix it with a little fantasy - a street of shops visible only to those chosen to attend the ball, magically appearing tickets, and enchanted ball gowns.  

Before I Go To Sleep - by S. J. Watson - Memories - real, false, and a bit of both - are at the heart of British author Watson's haunting, twisted debut. Christine Lucas awakens each morning in London with no idea who she is or why she's in bed with a strange man, until he tells her that his name is Ben and they've been married for 22 years. Slowly, Christine learns that she has amnesia and is unable to remember her past or retain new memories: every night when she falls asleep, the slate is wiped clean. Dr. Nash, her therapist, has encouraged her to write in a journal that she keeps secret from Ben. Christine realizes how truly tangled—and dangerous—her life is after she sees the words "don't trust Ben" written in her journal, whose contents reveal that the only person she can trust is herself. (Publisher's Weekly)

Dave and I read this one together and agreed that it was perfect for a joint read.  There were so many twists and turns that it took both of us to keep them straight.  Christine's memories are completely erased each night when she goes to sleep, then replaced by what she is told by her husband, Ben, and what she reads in the secret journal she has begun keeping.  But we were never sure which was true - or if we could handle the truth.  We slowly pieced the story together along with Christine and realized the unexpected answer at about the same time she did.  Original concept, well executed.

Nanny Diaries by Emma McLaughlin and Nicola Kraus - Wanted: 
One young woman to take care of four-year-old boy. Must be cheerful, enthusiastic and selfless—bordering on masochistic. Must relish sixteen-hour shifts with a deliberately nap-deprived preschooler. Must love getting thrown up on, literally and figuratively, by everyone in his family. Must enjoy the delicious anticipation of ridiculously erratic pay. Mostly, must love being treated like fungus found growing out of employers Hermès bag. Those who take it personally need not apply.  

Struggling to graduate from NYU and afford her microscopic studio apartment, Nanny takes a position caring for the only son of the wealthy X family. She rapidly learns the insane amount of juggling involved to ensure that a Park Avenue wife who doesn’t work, cook, clean, or raise her own child has a smooth day.

When the X's marriage begins to disintegrate, Nanny ends up involved way beyond the bounds of human decency or good taste. Over nine tense months, Mrs. X and Nanny perform the age-old dance of decorum and power as they test the limits of modern-day servitude. (Publisher's synopsis)
I picked up the audio version of this book at the library based solely on the cover and the fact that it is read by Julia Roberts.  I was vaguely aware that this book existed and had been made into a movie, but my info stopped there.  Turns out I should have paid more attention.  I loved listening to this audio and was rather disappointed when it ended - a large part of which was due to Ms. Roberts' reading/acting skills.  So enthralled was I that, while digging through a bin of bargain books at the grocery store (of all places) and uncovering a $5 copy of the sequel, Nanny Returns, it took great restraint to leave it there and promise myself I would get it at the library.  But when I discovered the library did not have it, I RAN. . . ok, I ran to my car and drove . . . well, actually I walked hastily to my car and drove to the grocery store to get it.

Nanny Returns by Emma McLaughlin and Nicola Kraus - After living abroad for twelve years, Nan and her husband have returned to New York to get her new business off the ground and fix up their fixer-upper. To compound the mounting construction woes and marital chaos of Ryan announcing his sudden desire to start a family, sixteen-year-old Grayer X makes a drunken, late-night visit wanting to know why Nan abandoned him all those years ago. Soon she is drawn back into Mrs. X's ever-bizarre Upper East Side conclave of power and privilege in this tale of what happens when a community that chooses money over love finds itself with neither. (Publisher's synopsis)

Sequels are rarely as good as the originals and that holds true here.  As a college student struggling to make ends meet, I understood, at least partially, why Nanny put up with the X's demeaning treatment.  However, ten years later and no longer on the payroll, it was time for Nanny to get a backbone.  Unfortunately, she never really did.  I found that the continual crises in her personal life, business and relationship with the X's, partnered with her noodle-like spine just became frustrating.  Fans of the first book will find this worth their time for some "closure" on Nanny and Grayer's story.  

Citizen Girl by Emma McLaughlin and Nicola Kraus - Working in a world where a college degree qualifies her to make photocopies and color-coordinate file folders, twenty-four-year-old Girl is struggling to keep up with the essential trinity of food, shelter, and student loans. So when she finally lands the job of her dreams she ignores her misgivings and concentrates on getting the job done...whatever that may be.
Sharply observed and devastatingly funny, Citizen Girl captures with biting accuracy what it means to be young and female in the new economy. A personal glimpse into an impersonal world, Citizen Girl is edgy and heartfelt, an entertaining read that is startlingly relevant. (publisher's synopsis)
That whole second paragraph?  Not so much.  I'll admit, it's been a while since I was young, and I was about as spineless as they came in those days (I got over it), but I don't believe I would have put up with the treatment this girl received. Perhaps Ms. McLaughlin and Ms. Kraus are stuck on this down-trodden, single-girl heroine, or perhaps it wasn't a good idea to listen to the audio of this book while reading Nanny Returns by the same authors.  The two protagonists began to meld in my mind with absolutely no help from Mr. Spock.  Even then, I enjoyed listening, again anticipating some spinal strengthening, and this time I was rewarded.  

Sunday, September 11, 2011

Have We Forgotten?

As we've made the rounds through the television channels and blogs today, we've seen a recurring theme that bothers us.  Readers and viewers are encouraged to honor the day without reliving the event.  We should hold feel-good ceremonies talking about moving forward and "world peace" - like a nation of Miss America contestants - but not watch the carnage or mention who caused it.  We should not talk about where we were or how we felt on that day ten years ago.  We disagree.  If we do that, we dishonor those who died that day and the brave soldiers who have - before and since - died fighting for our freedom and security.  We dishonor those who continue to fight that war.  
We should relive that day - every minute of the horror that those trapped in the World Trade Center experienced.  Every minute of terror for those on the four planes.  Every minute of grief suffered by their families.  Every act of heroism by every firemen or police officer who sacrificed his life.  We should relive the swell of patriotism and the unity as citizens that we felt in the days following.  We should relive the resurgence of people turning to God, restoring our country's foundation on Him.



Have we forgotten, how it felt that day
to see our homeland under fire 
and her people blown away?

Have you forgotten when those towers fell?
We had neighbors still inside 
going through a living hell.

And you say we shouldn't worry about Bin Laden.
Have we forgotten?


Today we give thanks for the soldiers, the firemen, the police officers, the rescue workers and the volunteers who, then and now, run into ground zero when everyone else is running out.  We give thanks for our Nation and pray for her return to "One Nation Under God" and "In God We Trust".

God Bless the U.S.A.

Saturday, September 10, 2011

Six Word Saturday

Friendly pup needs good home - please!

If you have room in your heart and home for this pretty little girl, please read this post.

Six Word Saturday is sponsored by Cate at ShowMyFace.  Want to play along?  Just describe your life (or something in it) in a phrase using exactly six words.  For more information click here.  You can add an explanation, a video, a song or nothing at all.  Visit Cate's blog to link your entry or to read all entries.

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Foster Parenting

We have a new arrival at Green Acres.  A beautiful, 9-month-old Chocolate Lab/Mix pup that was either abandoned or who went wandering and got lost.  She showed up on our doorstep - skinny and tired and scared - a couple weeks ago.  We contacted the Richardson County Humane Society, but their facility is full, as is the local pound.  The Director is even harboring five of the "overflow" dogs at her home, causing her husband to take frequent fishing trips.   So, until they are able to find a permanent home, we have agreed to be puppy foster parents.

The Humane Society has placed posters with her picture and description around town, as well as in the newspaper, but so far no takers.  We were hopeful that she had a previous owner who was looking for her, but as time passes, that seems less and less likely.  In the mean time, we are trying not to become attached, and to that end have taken to calling her "Three" (as in dog #3).  She and Gabby (our recent, rescued addition) have become fast friends - running, tumbling, chewing, and wrestling.  Molly, our Springer Spaniel, adheres steadfastly to her "ignore them and maybe they'll go away" policy.   I know what you're thinking, but "No . . . No No . . .No No No".* Being out-numbered by our dogs doesn't seem like a convenient or affordable plan.  We're supposed to be "free as a bird" empty-nesters, remember?

So, we are pleading for a good home for Miss Three.  Obviously, we don't know her lineage, but she has the beautiful chocolate coloring, face, and eyes of a Lab, in a smaller package.
  Her size would make her an ideal house-dog. (She is currently 45 lbs. and about knee-high, but still very thin from her travels and not quite full-grown.)  She is an outdoor dog at our place, so we haven't had an opportunity to evaluate her house-training, but the vet said she did well in the kennel there.  Even though she has been provided a dog house with a soft pillow, she prefers to sleep curled into a lawn chair on the front porch.  I have checked at various times during the night and she's always right there.  While she will bark occasionally if a varmint or vehicle ventures too near the house, she is a very quiet girl who avoids random barking and so would do well in town.

During the day, she has the run of the place while we're at work and the other two are contained in the house.  She does wander a short distance, like down to take a dip in the pond in the cow pasture, but she always responds to the first whistle or sound of an approaching vehicle and is waiting enthusiastically when we drive in.  She's not about to wander away from a good thing again!

She is incredibly gentle and loving with us and with other dogs - never a nip or growl - so we think she would do well with children.  She still has all her puppy playfulness and, yes, that means she has broken a flower pot and shortened our garden hose by about five feet, but she's learning.  

Three is current on her shots, thanks to the Humane Society, and is on heart worm and flea/tick prevention.  If you have a loving home for Miss Three, please contact us in the comments here or by email at dterwin@sentco.net  We would be glad to send you more pictures, information or even videos.  We live in the southeast corner of Nebraska and are willing to deliver her or meet you within a reasonable distance to ensure she gets a good home.



*West Wing Quote

Monday, September 5, 2011

Six Word Saturday: Better Late Than Never

I realize it's no longer Saturday, but we just got home.  So here are our six words and some pictures to describe our long weekend:


Football


Marching Band

 Family

Fireworks


FUN!

Six Word Saturday is sponsored by Cate at ShowMyFace.  Want to play along?  Just describe your life (or something in it) in a phrase using exactly six words.  For more information click here.  You can add an explanation, a video, a song or nothing at all.  Visit Cate's blog to link your entry or to read all entries.

Friday, September 2, 2011

Look it up!


  • In my ramblings through the internet yesterday, I ran across this article on Dictionary.com.  It seems the Collins Dictionary is declaring some words obsolete and removing them from their smaller print version.  Important point to note:  This is being done for practical, space-related reasons in the small version only - otherwise it would no longer be the small version.  These words will still be contained in the larger print version and on-line.  I know many of you, myself included, are fans and participants of Wonderous Words Wednesday, in which bloggers share new and unusual words they have discovered in their reading, so here are some of the Wonderous Words that are being deleted.  How many do you know?  (Answers are at the end of this post.)

    • aerodrome 
    • alienism 
    • bever 
    • brabble 
    • charabanc 
    • deliciate 
    • frigorific
    • supererogate 
    • younker
    • drysalter
      stauroscope 
      succedaneum 
      woolfell

The part of this article I found the most discombobulating (confusing or perplexing) were people's animadversions (unfavorable or censorious remarks).  There were many who actually fuminated (to explode with a loud noise or to issue denunciations) that the writers of a dictionary can peremptorily (imperiously or dictatorially; leaving no opportunity for denial or refusal) change our language.  (All these big words are giving me a cephalalgia - that's a headache.) So, heads up, people!  You are NOT being banned from ever speaking these words.  They just won't be in one small, printed dictionary.  Get a grip!  For what it's worth, spell check did not recognize nine of these eleven words.  I'm just saying.

      To do my part in preserving the English language, I am beginning my own campaign to bring back brabble and frigorific.  Are these not two of the most delightful words you've ever heard?  Brabble describes pretty much every teenage girl ever born (and a frightning number of grown women), and frigorific just makes me smile to say it.  "This chocolate malt is giving me a brain freeze.  It's frigorific!"  :D:

      • Vocabulary Quiz Answers:

      • aerodrome a landing area, esp for private aircraft, that is usually smaller than an airport
      • alienismthe study and treatment of mental illness
      • beverA light repast between meals; a lunch/To take a light repast between meals.
      • brabbleto argue stubbornly about trifles; wrangle./noisy, quarrelsome chatter.
      • charabanc - a large bus used on sightseeing tours.
      • deliciate To delight one's self; to indulge in feasting; to revel.
      • frigorificcausing or producing cold.
      • supererogateto do or perform more than is required
      • younkera youngster/a young noble or gentleman
      • drysalter - a dealer in dry chemicals
      • stauroscope - an optical intrument for studying the crystal sturcture of minerals
      • succedaneum - a substitute
      • woolfell - the skin of a wool-bearing animal withe fleece still on it.

      • Here's my question to you - In large printed volumes or on-line dictionaries where space is not such an issue, should words be declared obsolete and dropped?  Isn't that the point of a dictionary - to store the meaning of unfamiliar words so that they are not forgotten?  

Thursday, September 1, 2011

Put Me In, Coach!

A few weeks ago, our daughter Amanda told a friend who had expressed some confusion at life - as we all have done - "I'm sure my mom would be willing to talk to you, if you want. It's what she does - she fixes people's lives."

Which led me to think, "Maybe I have a gift for this.  Maybe this is my new career.  Maybe the wisdom of my years could be used to help others who are where I have been.  Maybe I should become [insert fanfare] . . . a Life Coach. (Stop laughing!)  So I did a little research (research = Google) into what, exactly, a life coach does.  From my detailed analysis involving over one web-site, I learned the following:

  • You do not need to know, nor employ, the basic rules of grammar in order to be a life coach.
  • A life coach isn't, necessarily, fully prepared to do his/her job.  The comprehensive education required for this field can be accomplished in sixteen hours (not credit hours, hours) for less than $400.
  • A life coach doesn't actually have the answers to life's questions, but he/she can dance a little side-step* by using lines such as "I believe that you know the answers to every question or challenge you may have in your life.  I simply empower you to find those answers within yourself."  
  • Life coaches "motivate" and "give confidence boosts"
  • Life coaches are fond of vague, ambiguous phrases.
  • There is actually a national convention of life coaches . . . seriously! 
But the light bulb finally came on when I read this description:
Life coaches "deal with relatively healthy people who want to improve their lives in specific ways, such as changing careers, finding a healthy relationship, losing weight, or deepening their self-understanding.  They deal with stress management, time management, and goal setting to help their clients lead more balanced lives that better reflect the client's personal values and priorities."
Then I knew - It's not that I have a "gift" for fixing lives, or special qualities that would guarantee my success.  The reason I'm so well-qualified for this job is because I, along with millions of other women, have been doing it for years.  "Life Coach" is just the new-age name for Mom.


*Bonus points if you can name the movie which included the song "Dance A Little Sidestep".  Double your points if you can also name title/artist of the song featured in the title of this post.
** Since I am making fun of their content, I have graciously excluded the names of the actual web-sites from which I took the above statements.  If you happen to be a copyright attorney or some such thing, the information is available on  request.  But does your client seriously want people to know that they wrote this drivel?